It is a part of my calling as a pastor, to walk alongside in good times and bad times. This day found me going to the detention center. One of my church members had been arrested for selling drugs to an undercover officer. He has been coming to church about a year and a half and joined the church five months ago. As his pastor/friend, I had high hopes for him, overcoming his addiction and lifestyle of poor choices. The future looks bleak, the possibility of falling into the category of a persistent felon, and if convicted, the loss of his disability check.
I first met this man at a homeless shelter. For about two years I have led a spirituality group each week to share my belief that a relationship with Jesus can help us through life. I came to know a man in his 50’s who needed to reconnect with a faith community. His journey into drugs is a long story, but could happen to many in this world. As we talked during the visitation time, we talked about the bleak future, the need for repentance, and the possibility of forgiveness.
Just before the end of visitation, he said “let me see if I can get my tithe check from my belongings to send to the church.” Of all the things I thought that we would talk about, the notion of receiving his tithe check for the church never crossed my mind. Even in jail, my friend was trying to live out his faithful existence as a follower of Christ. I found inspiration there in the visitation room.
Frederick Buechner once wrote that he was a part-time novelist and a part-time Christian. I am reminded that none of us live up to our claim to be Christ-like. But my friend/parishioner is still trying, and we will walk with him.
